tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post7327596705938977868..comments2023-11-15T23:28:04.208-05:00Comments on 101 Reasons I Hate Being Fat!: #73 - Thinking that people are ashamed of mekaraokekittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11989189866254772884noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-3380604490016892972012-12-18T10:54:40.868-05:002012-12-18T10:54:40.868-05:00I will not tell you that you are mistaken. You ar...I will not tell you that you are mistaken. You are right. People are ashemed of fat person. It's sad but it's trueMatthew Wilsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11137537053576780201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-20594089947853100402009-11-10T04:14:38.335-05:002009-11-10T04:14:38.335-05:00I absolutely agree with you. Usually people feel w...I absolutely agree with you. Usually people feel who you are inside, it is happening instinctively.Online Pharmacieshttp://www.no-prescription-onlinepharmacy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-81010557812579922202007-07-12T01:32:00.000-04:002007-07-12T01:32:00.000-04:00Just came across your blog, and man, am I inspired...Just came across your blog, and man, am I inspired! Not only have you managed to lose 50something pounds, but you've also kept a positive attitude throughout it all, I've always had a problem with self-esteem, but I can honestly say that you have motivated me to break that habit and turn things around. Keep up what you're doing, and you're right...your charming personality WILL win them over. After all, it won me over, right:)?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-33570296528949852242007-07-12T00:56:00.000-04:002007-07-12T00:56:00.000-04:00Good times. I would just focus on how excited you ...Good times. I would just focus on how excited you are to see him. Put these thoughts in the back of your mind. I am sure that his folks are just as nervous to meet you. Maybe they think you will be staring at them all night - noticing the mole on her nose...noticing his balding hairline...noticing that she's not such a good cook...<BR/><BR/>I think we worry too much of what other people are thinking. And it turns out in the end that they are judging you at all. They are just happy to get to know you.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04222007416830328320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-54506416706270583342007-07-11T14:49:00.000-04:002007-07-11T14:49:00.000-04:00years ago at a job i worked.. I had lost over 50 p...years ago at a job i worked.. I had lost over 50 pounds.. and things being what they were at that time I started gaining it back.. well.. one lady said to me .. your butt is getting big again.. you sure are getting big again... and I looked at her and simply said.. I may be fat.. but you are ugly, I can lose weight...you on the other hand will never change.and I walked out of the room .. leaving the comment very open ended.. she never said anything ugly to me again.Honihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15359367037727685694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-19857484207698655532007-07-11T13:56:00.000-04:002007-07-11T13:56:00.000-04:00Maybe you will get there and half his relatives wi...Maybe you will get there and half his relatives will be "larger" people tooKim Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12399552260939866378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-11320490554679401412007-07-11T09:30:00.000-04:002007-07-11T09:30:00.000-04:00As others have said, your fears are totally unders...As others have said, your fears are totally understandable, and I'm a worry wort that over analyzes everything, so I completely understand.<BR/><BR/>But don't worry, I'm sure his friends and family will love you, and even if they don't, as long as he does, and doesn't care, that's all that matters.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15502681882561955975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-68029915660053443792007-07-10T18:16:00.000-04:002007-07-10T18:16:00.000-04:00Those internal monsters are hard to deal with some...Those internal monsters are hard to deal with some times. I don't think he would want you to meet the family if he was ashamed of you. And I did see that picture you posted recently and you are a very pretty girl. I am sure everyone will see that.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12208918625470988840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-69800098246822785802007-07-10T16:56:00.000-04:002007-07-10T16:56:00.000-04:00oh, hun....i have experienced this first hand....s...oh, hun....i have experienced this first hand....so i know. i know what it feels like to meet your bf's mother and see her eyes falter, and shine with disapointment. i remember it very clearly, like it was yesterday. i was only a teenager, so of course i'm all scarred for life and crap, lol....but jokes aside, i know. and it sucks. and i pray that it will go well for you guys.<BR/><BR/>that last pic you posted was pretty H-O-T so i doubt there will be much of a problem. you are beautuful, he knows that. ;)Naturally Blessedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13212011826981720568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-90195987241148295312007-07-10T15:19:00.000-04:002007-07-10T15:19:00.000-04:00It's interesting that you said you wish you were t...It's interesting that you said you wish you were thinner, because you ARE thinner - you are FIFTY POUNDS THINNER than you were when you started. And you know what? In a month's time, you'll be even thinner. <BR/><BR/>And like you said, you have a fantastic personality. So now you're thinner (MUCH thinner!) and you've got a great personality to boot. You sound like a real catch to me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-76765086479073152822007-07-10T14:06:00.000-04:002007-07-10T14:06:00.000-04:00Another heartbreakingly honest entry. Kitty, your ...Another heartbreakingly honest entry. Kitty, your boyfriend has already gotten to know - and like - the real you and that's what counts. I'm sure he's proud of you for losing so much weight already and will be supportive as you lose more - and that will be important in future.<BR/><BR/>And as other posters have pointed out, you can't do anything about people who won't accept you for your weight. It's their problem, not yours!<BR/><BR/>From someone who has been obese and is now slim, I can tell you that when you get to the end of your journey, people will be much nicer to you in general. It sucks that people are that superficial, but it's good to be prepared for it.<BR/><BR/>Hope it all goes well when you meet him. We're all thinking of you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-89504998889056771152007-07-10T13:20:00.000-04:002007-07-10T13:20:00.000-04:00Well, judging by the progress photo you posted a c...Well, judging by the progress photo you posted a couple of weeks ago, I don't think you have anything to worry about! You look beautiful!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-29202980487762614242007-07-10T13:12:00.000-04:002007-07-10T13:12:00.000-04:00I have felt the same way before. I don't think tha...I have felt the same way before. I don't think that my husband is ashamed of me but I hate the thought of people looking down on him or me because I am overweight. I guess that is just something you have to get over until you get to a weight you are comfortable with.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-31289291075444786622007-07-10T12:42:00.000-04:002007-07-10T12:42:00.000-04:00I agree with the above poster, your fears and worr...I agree with the above poster, your fears and worries are understandable but I think you stated it great by saying that I'm sure everything will be fine and if anything, you'll win them over with your fantastic personality! It's so easy to get caught up with looking good, but when it comes down to it (and yes, this is very cliche) it's what's inside that counts! And if you're confident and happy on the inside, that will shine through and make everyone see u in an attractive light!<BR/><BR/>I'm sure all will go well...so exciting!Rohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00757079180783689025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-64678149033208220602007-07-10T12:05:00.000-04:002007-07-10T12:05:00.000-04:00Your fears and worries are totally understandable....Your fears and worries are totally understandable. I'm sure your guy is a good person (and that's why you like him), but you can't be sure that everyone else is as kind hearted or non-judgemental. However, as you correctly point out, those things are out of your control. So quit being a worry wort and enjoy your trip!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21498098.post-75674930965941440182007-07-10T11:22:00.000-04:002007-07-10T11:22:00.000-04:00You seem like a lovely person, inside and out. ((H...You seem like a lovely person, inside and out. ((HUGS))Robin Baynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02640632701164428942noreply@blogger.com